Conquer Holiday Chaos
Delegation Tips for the Busy Holiday Season
By Marlene Wagner
The holidays are here, and with them comes the familiar flurry.
The season that somehow seems to pack more into every day than the rest of the year combined.
Between deadlines at work, family gatherings at home, and everything else in between, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed.
But this year, there’s a better way forward, learning to delegate. Sharing responsibilities isn’t only smart, it’s necessary to keep your sanity and truly enjoy the season.
When you look at the complete list of holiday tasks, it quickly becomes clear that you can’t do it all alone.
The work projects that need to be wrapped up before year-end include writing and mailing holiday cards. Shopping for gifts and decorating the house.
Take time to look at which tasks to hold on to, which tasks you could delegate, and who in your circle can help most effectively.
At the Office
At work, tasks like managing your inbox or booking meetings can often be handed off to an assistant or a trusted teammate who enjoys organization or detail work.
Tracking project timelines or preparing reports may be an excellent fit for someone with strong numbers and follow-through.
And if you have a colleague who’s comfortable communicating, they might happily handle client updates or coordinate holiday events.
At Home
At home, think about who in your family or friend circle naturally fits specific roles.
Maybe your partner is great at picking out gifts or wrapping presents, while your teenager loves decorating or managing holiday music playlists.
A close friend might love helping with meal prep, chopping vegetables, or running errands. Neighbors might chip in and help with outside holiday decorations.
Don’t overlook local services available. Services such as grocery delivery or cleaning services can take a considerable load off your plate.
Find the Sweet Spot
The first step in successful delegation is finding your sweet spot.
That means the tasks that best use your unique strengths and that really need your personal touch.
If you’re the family’s go-to chef and love preparing special holiday dishes, keep that.
But suppose tedious tasks like addressing ten thousand holiday cards or coordinating supply lists drain you.
In that case, those are the perfect ones to hand off. This balance helps free your time without losing what you enjoy or do best.
Learn the Strengths and Weaknesses of Others
Knowing your helpers’ strengths and limits makes the whole process work better.
Matching each person to tasks they’re good at not only gets the job done well but also makes the experience more enjoyable for them.
You don’t want to ask your spouse to plan the entire holiday menu if they get confused by the shopping list.
But maybe they’re fantastic at managing and supplying the beverage area.
If someone prefers straightforward chores or creative projects, give them tasks like organizing gift wrap or writing gift tags.
Prioritize
Prioritizing is important. Write down every responsibility, then decide what’s urgent, what’s important but can wait a bit, and what could be skipped this year.
Sometimes, good enough really is good enough. Maybe meals don’t need to be from scratch, or decorations don’t need to be Pinterest-perfect.
Set your priorities so you can delegate the less critical tasks and free up time for what matters most.
Autonomy
It’s essential to help your helpers work with some autonomy. Give clear goals and expectations, letting them find their own ways to reach them.
It builds confidence and makes it much more likely that things will be done without constant oversight. This way, everyone feels trusted and empowered.
Open Door Policy
At the same time, keep an open-door policy.
Make sure your team, whether it’s coworkers or family members, knows they can always check in with you if questions or issues pop up.
That way, you avoid surprises and they don’t feel abandoned. It’s about offering support without micromanaging.
Check In Regularly
Regular check-ins are key, but should be light touch.
A quick chat or message every few days to check on progress keeps everyone aligned without putting anyone under pressure.
If something veers off track, be ready to offer guidance with kindness and patience rather than frustration. After all, it’s a team effort.
Embrace Creativity and Freedom of Method
And remember, your way isn’t the only way. Embrace creativity and individual approaches.
Maybe your daughter wants to try a new cookie recipe, or your colleague suggests a different approach to holiday communications.
What matters most is that goal. Happy guests, a calm office, or a peaceful home, but not one where every step matches your usual method.
Clearly Define the Parameters of a Job
Finally, be sure everyone understands the scope of their tasks and what success looks like.
Clear communication means fewer misunderstandings and smoother results.
For example, explain that decorating the living room means putting up lights and ornaments by Thursday evening.
Or that planning the office party includes booking the caterer and sending invites.
With all this in mind, delegating becomes a way not just to manage the mountain of holiday duties, but to bring others into the joy and spirit of the season.
Sharing the load lightens your work and creates moments where everyone feels they contributed to the holiday magic.
This holiday season, take a breath, make your list, find your sweet spot, and start passing tasks along.
You’ll be surprised how much more enjoyable and calm this busiest time of year can be when we work together.
Remember that sometimes the best gift is letting go.
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Until next time, starting today, make yourself a priority and begin living your best life.
But before we go, always remember to
Be true to your magnificent self,
Coach Marlene
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